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Published: January 10, 2020

5 Indicators that your Relationship needs Counseling

When you first fell in love, you could never imagine that someday the sound of your partner chewing could make you want to scream. It’s inevitable that once we are out of our honeymoon phase and reality sets in, we realize that all relationships take work and compromise. But while some couples may hit bumps in the road every so often, other couples find themselves in bigger trouble, with neither party knowing exactly how to fix the relationship.

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If you are in a relationship that is no longer feeling healthy, here are 5 indicators that your relationship needs counseling:

5 indicators:

1. There is No Longer Healthy Communication

Once you have a communication breakdown, you are unable to rationally share thoughts, feelings, and concerns with each other. Beyond this, unhealthy communication tends to leave one or both partners feeling depressed, angry and hopeless.

2. Trust Has Been Broken

When there has been infidelity, it is very difficult for the couple to rebuild trust and repair the damage. While there is no magic pill to recover from an affair, a therapist can offer tools and strategies to rebuild trust.

3. You’re More Like Roommates

If you and your partner act more like roommates than romantic partners, this indicates a lack of intimacy and a potential need for professional help.

4. One or Both of You Has Begun Acting Out

You try to mask your real feelings for as long as possible, but then you start to act out the hurt and resentment you may be feeling. For instance, if your partner has been unfaithful and you have agreed to stay in the relationship and work things out. But over time you find yourself lashing out, acting rude and trying to make them believe you are having an affair so they will feel the same kind of hurt. This acting out is unhealthy for both people and is a BIG indicator you need to seek some help.

5. When the Only “Solution” Seems to be Separation/Divorce

A break from negative energy can be very helpful to the relationship. But when a temporary break leads to more and more time away from home and someone renting their own apartment, this indicates a need for counseling. Spending time away from home usually doesn’t lead to any real resolution, just more distance.

If you and your partner are interested in exploring treatment options, please be in touch with me. I would be more than happy to discuss how I may be able to help.

Begin Marriage Counseling in the Fort Worth Area

At my Dallas/Fort Worth counseling clinic, I offer marriage counseling & couples therapy. I specialize in working with couples where infidelity has been an issue or where one partner has an addiction. Contact Anew Counseling or schedule a 15 minute consultation to begin healing.

Other Counseling Services at Anew Counseling

In addition to working with couples, I often work with one spouse or the other.  My specialty is sex and porn addiction treatment. Additionally, I can work with a single spouse in a strained relationship. I often work with the spouses or significant others who were cheated on. It is crushing to realize the person you love cheated on you and I specialize in treating this betrayal trauma, often using EMDR, a popular form of trauma therapy.


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